Before enumerating the 10 ways to keep a healthy relationship, it is first necessary to know what a healthy relationship is all about.
A healthy relationship is
not one that is problem free, but a relationship with many up's and down's but is still standing.
1). Marriage should never be the first priority of healthy relationship:
Many get into a relationship for the basis of marriage, forgetting the fact that marriage is a product of a healthy relationship. Dating is a learning process whereby you get to know more about the opposite s£s therefore, you should concentrate more on knowing your Partner rather than concentrating on ending up with him or her at early stage.
NOTE: Marriage is a life time commitment and therefore it should not be rushed into.
2). Tell your Partner all about your ugly/dirty past:
One of the greatest mistakes made in a relationship is the inability to tell Your partner about who you formerly used to be before you met your Him or Her. It isn't nice to hide yur former identity from your partner, because it doesn't or wouldn't appeal to your partner if any of them finds out from q third party. This brings about lack of trust and doubts about who you are dating.
NOTE: When you tell your partner about your past life, it makes your partner respect and trust you more.
3). Never compare your partner to anybody:
Comparison in a relationship brings about low self esteem and especially when your partner doesn't like publicity and comparing him or her could lead to lack of interest in a relationship.
NOTE: Work on your partner to be what you want, don't ever compare him or her to anyone you admire.
4). Never go for looks, wealth or material things:
Love should be the first thing you consider before you decide to date someone! Looks fade away, wealth and so also material possessions but what you feel for someone forever remains.
NOTE: Go for heart not outward appearance.
5). Never expect something in return while dating someone:
True love is when you love someone and expect nothing in return. You bought Her a gift on Her birthday doesn't mean she should or must do same in return on your birthday. Anything you do for your partner should be done because of the love you both share not because you want to reciprocate the process.
NOTE: Always show how much you love each other by constantly putting in mind that all you do for your partner, you do out of love.
6). Never play a prank or test on your Partner to see if He or She truly loves you:
Most relationships have been destroyed on this ground, a problem occurs when the person you tested or played a prank on misunderstands the motives behind your action.
NOTE: Love your partner with all your heart and rebuke any prank or test to test His or Her love for you.
7). Never impose a false identity to win His or Her love:
Always be yourself and never fake what you are not just because you want to win His or Her love. He or She will respect you even more, when you are yourself because if He or She finds out you are faking identity or not as so claimed, He or She looses trust in you.
NOTE: There is only you in the world, always be yourself.
8). Never be shy to tell Him or Her intimate matters:
Intimate matters could be sex related (+18), Family issues etc. Always feel free to tell him or her what you feel no matter how hard it is or may seem, because this builds the trust he or she has in you.
NOTE: He or She is whom you choose to love so telling him or her what you feel or think about anything shouldn't be an issue.
9). Show much concern towards His or Her Success and appreciate every little effort He or She implements to make it in life:
Ask Him or Her regularly about his plans in life and try as much as possible to see to his or her success plans coming to pass. Always appreciate him or her when ever they make a move to make it in life.
NOTE: Take his or her success plans as though it was yours and do anything you can to make it a reality.
Finally we are @ number 10
10). Show much love and concern towards families:
You should not just be concerned about the both of you, but also your various families, ask partner about his siblings, mum, dad, etc. This goes a long way to show that you are not just concerned about him or her but also about the family.
NOTE: see that partners family loves yours also.
Article Written By : Josh White
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